Picking up women when you're fat & ugly should be really easy, you've got nothing to lose.  You're at the bottom of the pecking order already, just go for it.

Oh really, you say.  I nave feelings too.  Oh well.  Picking up women is a numbers game as well as a game of preparation.  To be successful you must prepare the field of conquest before you go into battle.

If you're going to a club get there early to scope the place out.  You must be confortable with your surroundings.  If you are uncomfortable or desperate, showing up at the last minute, then no woman you want to be with will fall for your play.

When you get there check it out, if a woman makes eye contact and smiles at you smile back and then go over and talk with her.  Don't wait 'til later as it may be too late.  She has feelings too, you know.

If, after talking with the lady nothing comes of it this time at least get her phone number for a possible future event.  No harm in building up your phone book.

The most important thing is not to seem desperate and to go out there and talk to as many women as possible.  Practice makes perfect.

Listen carefully my children and you will hear...

Sounds pretty important doesn't it.  It should!  Dating online has it's pitfalls.  Those who do not prepare correctly may be damaged or worse unsuccessfull.

So here it is: Online Dating Tips -

Honesty-
There is much to be said for honesty but remember you are going online to find a possible date.  You really do not know who that person is therefore never give away your personal information online, save it for later after you've met the person and are comfortable with htem.

Additionally, when first meeting do not go alone, meet in a very public place and do not drink! Use your common sense and your gut feeling & you should be OK.


Respectable Dating Site-
Choose a respectable dating site.  Hint: if they ask comprehensive questions and don't promise you the moon they should be ok.  Some sites will ask for your credit card & address, cuts down on a lot of flakes.  Just like you, they also have a reputation to maintain.

Don't Take People @ Face Value... read more

Ok, you decided to pickup women online.  After signing up with a couple of dating services you connected with someone.  Now you're writing back and forth, getting into intimate areas of each others lives. .

Are you tired of talking to your virtual girfriend online.  Is all you do talk & exchange photos?  Do you wonder how can I meet her for real?

Here are 5 steps to make it happen.

1.  Tell your virtual girlfriend that this online thing is great but nothing can be real until you both meet in real life.

2.  It's possible & more than likely to fall in love online.  But is this real?  Unless you get to know the person in real life you are more than likely to be faced with much disappointment if all you rely on is online communication.

3.  You can't get to know the real person with just online communication.  Suggest a phone chat followed by a real face-to-face meeting.  That's how you really get to know someone and discover if you're really in love.

4.  Be careful, online feelings may be different from offline feelings.  What sounded and felt great when you were writing to each other may not feel the same way when you actually meet face to face.

5.  .....read more

Are you ready to do some work.  You can find some fine women on craigslist but unlike organized dating sites on the web, where you can search by your preferwences, craigslist is a manual search.  You're going to review ads(profiles?) one by one.  It will take time and be tedious but it will be free.

Some of the advantages of using cl are large user base, local targeting, has a dedicated community but best of all it's free! 

Ok, let's go over a how to list about how to pickup women on craigslist:

1.  Create a new email account.  You will use this account strictly for your cl dating.  Use googlemail, yahoomail, msn or whatever free email service you like.  Note!  Do not use your work or personal email account! Why would you want to expose these accounts to people you don't know.

2.  Create an account at craigslist.  You will use the email account from step 1 to create your account.  Setting up the account is real easy, just follow the instructions.

3.  Write an ad.  Write what you are looking for in a date.  Write the way you normally talk.  It doesn't have to be perfect it just has to be written.  The more ads you write the better you'll get at it.  Just write.

4.  Post your ad or ads.

5.  repost your ad(s) every 2-3 days.  Naturally your ads will drop off page 1 and eventually page 2 pretty quickly.  Most people will not search beyond page 2, that' why you'll need to repost your ad(s) regularly.

6.  Browse ads from women and respond to those you like... read more

How many of you are currently on Facebook?  Facebook has just surpassed google as the #1 site in the US.

With over 400 million members there is a lot of opportunity to find and pickup women.

Here's a quick list of Facebook pick up tips:

1.  If your'e going to post pictures post pictures of you having fun with some good looking girls.

2.  Post no more than 50 pics, don't go crazy & post 100's.

3.  Show the athletic side of you, snowiboarding, surfing, cycling, etc.  your'e active not a couch potato.

4.  This one is really important, show pictures of hot girls having fun with you..

5.  To show your softer side include photos of you holding a puppy, a toddler, etc.

6.  Show photos of you doing interesting things, like travelling.

7.  Turn your relationship status off.  Get the girl to show some initiative & interest in you by asking about you.

8.  ........................find out the rest of the tips on how to pickup women on facebook.

"Hooking up," "Friends with benefits," "Booty call" are terms you might be familiar with.

Depending on the generation you are from these terms either have no meaning or a clear meaning of what they entail.  For those who are unfamiliar with this terminology the three phrases all mean the same thing -  sex for sex's sake, no emotional involvement whatsoever.  Meet up for sex and move on, same as a one night stand.

This is the new way of "dating" a way in which the only expenditure you need to perform is your physical activity during the sexual act itself.  These things require only a means to communicate with a willing person, call them and get it done.

But is this the right way for you to exist.  Is a hookup good enough for you or do you need something more, something with more meaning.   Hooking up vs. lasting love - questions you must consider before determining which it will be for you... read more

Here we go again, Friends with Benefits!  Have you ever had a man approch you with a proposal for a friends with benefits relationship?  It may sound so good, to have sex on call without any romantic or relationship responsibilites involved.

But let's see if there is a flip side to this type of arrangement. 

Having sex for a woman causes an emotional bond, unlike a male for whom sex is just a physical activity.  Are you going to be ok with this bond growing stronger the more you have sex with this guy.  Can you handle him using you as a sex toy without being emotionally involved with you.

Friends with benefits  is a great deal for a guy but is it a great deal for you?

Think about it before you jump in with both feet....

One would think that people would know when they are involved in a sex only relationship.

One would think that, but there are a lot of people, mainly women, who do not recognize and understand that they are in a bootycall relationship.

Let me go through the five ways by which you can judge if you're just a booty call.

1.  He allows you to visit in the wee hours of the morning.

2.  You do not have his phone or cell numbers.

3.  You have never, and never will meet his friends or family.

4.  He doesn't acknowledge you.  and...

5.  He has never asked or taken you out on a date.

Based on the above checklist you can easily determine if you are just a bootycall.  Judge for yourself.  A bootycall is not necessarily a bad thing, if that's what you're into.  If not, act accordingly.  You are the one who must act on your behalf.

Guess what??... If you're in this type of a relationship all that you are is an object with which he can satisfy his sexual needs.  If you think that this kind of relationship can evolve into something more meaningful and serious you are seriously deluding yourself!

To get a more in-depth view of the five ways to determine if you're just a bootycall click here.

A booty call is just a phone call or other means of communication with another person regarding getting together for sexual intimacy without any other expectations.  Basically, meeting up for sex and then leaving.

Most men and some women understand booty calls and live quite well with them.  Although the majority of women are kind of in a fog when it comes to bootycalls - they seem to think that any sexual encounter with a man is almost a relationship.

Here's a quick checklist for the ladies to decide if your "relationship," and you, are just a booty call.

1.  He doesn't call before 11pm.

2.  He doesn't meet you in public places.

3.  He only calls when he's drunk.

4.  He doesn't spend money on you.

5.  He doesn't discuss emotions with you.

6.  You never meet his friends or family.

Men understand that sex is just sex, it's a great way to have fun and release some tension.  Knock it out and get out, while women... read more